I am a 100% polish and happy plus proud of it !!!only that this is my nationality, my heart (as some may know) belongs to AU :)
but still P O L I S H !!!

Well as you said Camila you don't feel Polish, although I can see some of the genetics creeping through in your comments :)

It's so cheering that some chauvinistic man can show an other face sometimes...they real one maybe even ;)

I'm not so sensitive to be offended by some jokes but it's true I don't like them. I am way to many levels above to joke around to make my self feel or look better!

As for all other 'issues' of yours, here are my answers:

'1) A donkey to carry the luggage/bags'

I'm a huge animal lover but I don't date donkeys!

'2) A punching bag when she's in a bad mood'

This could be the truth only if some guy would try to make me be his punching bag!

'3) A door opener'

I you want this to be the other way around i suggest Asians!

'4) A coat carrier'

Why would I want anyone to carry my coat?!?

'5) A taxi service'

Thats ok, you don't need to worry poor thing I have my mobile always with me!

'6) Always a perfect gentleman'

Well, If you don't want to date a lady than go ahead and be a pig.

Hey Camila - Having been married twice to Polish girls, I decided to have a look at your list. I'll go though them here :)

1. A cook

In the over 50 category I'll agree, but I don't want to date one of those.

2. A cleaning staff

If you'd like to offer that, that's fine, but in my experience the only women who clean are the ones who are paid to.

3. A psychologist

I think most girls here need one. You can't have a country of 19 million princesses.

4. A bed entertainer

So you do it all for the guy's pleasure then? Well, if that's true that's pretty admirable :)

5. A doctor

Have to admit I like being spoiled when I am ill

6. A good baby carer

Yes, but that is the same in any country

7. And always be mellow

LOL

8. And always look perfect

Yes, Polish girls are good at this. Somehow though I don't think it's for their steady boyfriend's sole benfit though ;)

9. And always be happy

This is the expectation. The reality is normally the guy apologising for something he didn't do wrong...

10. And always be forbearing

That would be nice :)

"What should I say to a woman with 2 black eyes?...NOTHING, I already told that bitch twice!"

"What is worse than a male chauvinist?....A bitch that won't do what she's told"

I am only kidding Kamilla...I know how much you hate jokes. Try to remember that I was a bartender in a redneck bar for some time...

So my opnion on being a:

1) A donkey to carry the luggage/bags - ok, whatever I am stronger.

2) A punching bag when she's in a bad mood. - Forget it woman...not happening. You can take that mood swing shit and move on.

3) A door opener - I hold the door in public for just about anyone and i will admit I used to open the car door for my women all the time in the states before getting in. My dad does it for my mom...just picked up the habit.

4) A coat carrier - I wanna live somewhere warm...til then ok, fine, whatever.

5) A taxi service. - The other way around. I have always had a car, but I never dated a girl without a car and since they don't drink as much as men, they make great designated drivers. Even if they drink a little and get pulled over by the cops, they have a better chance of getting out of it.

6) Always a perfect gentleman - there is no such thing...only good liars.

I try to be a gentlemen...I just wanna make my Mama proud ;)

Man, especially foreigns complain that polish girls expect guys to open the door for them or to carry their heavy bag, etc. Very often guys don't do it but still demand from us to be:

1. A cook
2. A cleaning staff
3. A psychologist
4. A bed entertainer
5. A doctor
6. A good baby carer
7. And always be mellow
8. And always look perfect
9. And always be happy
10. And always be forbearing

The best part of it is that everyone knows, polish woman can do it all and much more with facility. Are you guys really so weak, so 'nothing' that you can't for instance carry our bags???or hold the door for us???

By doing those anathema gestures you only showing you are stronger than us, manly, caring, protective, GOOD! Don't you wont to be all that in our eyes?!? You can do at least this little for us. We do all above for you + we carry your babies and give a birth, only for this reason you should treat us as princesses!

I am lucky enough to share my good times with one foreign man who does all this for me with pleasure and I am very happy to do my bit for him too :)

...however I have seen this phenomena in other countries as well, but it is really prominent in Poland