I changed my post to more accurately describe Marksi's skills.

I am recently single and Mark has had some good advice on dating Polish girls vs American girls. He has a better understanding of these creatures.

I had to say that he has skills and that I have seen it in action to help support my case. Plus if you have ever meet his wife you would know the guy knows how to win a real trophy...

Fellas, Listen to Marski and I. He has been my wingman here for the last 6 months I have been single. He is a hell of a coach. Think you are a man-eater ladies??? Step up and test your skills.

Not a natural flirt? Not to worry - anyone can learn the simple social skills that will attract others to you.

Steps:
1. Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.

2. Smile, smile, smile.

3. Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.

4. Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.

5. Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.

6. Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.

7. Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.

8. Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet.

9. Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.

Tips:
Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.

Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you. Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.

You thing being that hard to pick up polish chicks has something to do with the population being too religious? Look at Czechs, they're the Central Europe's mecca of sex.

Hmm, I don't know what works, but I sure know what doesn't

Some man think they know better how to pick up polish chick, to all those I say: If you've been dating GUYS than i guess maybe you do know better but is that makes you a man !???
If however you haven't been dating GUYS, how on earth can you tell what's the best for polish girls especially if YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM !???

Many women may disagree with the following topics which surprises me cause they ALOMOST always work. Maybe they won't admit to something for fear of revealing the true freak within themselves...we all have our images to protect.

1) The 3 second rule.

The point of the 3s rule is to propel you to approach women fast enough to keep your internal voice from talking you out of it and avoid hesitation. You do not want a woman to see you hesitate. The longer you hesitate, the more insecure and sappy you appear. Also, hesitation creates an added sense of nervousness to your mental state - a personality trait you do not want to portray when approaching women.

2) Look and feel your best.

If you want to be able to talk to girls everywhere, you have to be primed at all times, in both the physical and emotional sense. That means looking as good as you can as often as possible. People meet each other in the strangest and most unexpected places. If you never never know when to look your best, looking your best at all times is the optimal default. Yes, some women like thick stubble on a man's face, or messy sweatshirts, or sloppy hair, but most women prefer a neat & clean look. That doesn't mean you have to shave twice a day and walk around in Armani suits all the time, just that you should take care to be clean, organized (yet casual) in your appearance, your clothes match, your hair is not a mess, and you're wearing a good pair of shoes (women like shoes - just accept it). Feeling great adds to your confidence. When you have confidence, your rapport building skills with beautiful women will come more naturally.

3) Be the Alpha/Dominant male

If you watch animal shows on Discovery Channel, many species have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in the group, while the other males get none while waiting for him to die or until they are tough enough to kick his ass and become the alpha male themselves. Many males never get to be an alpha male (never get laid).
Often it seems like you know guys who are always getting laid and other guys never get laid. You'll even see women talking to/hanging out/being friends with the average guy, but then sleep with some other guy (even if he is a jerk, sleeps around and doesn't respect them). The guy who gets laid is playing the role of the alpha male, while the other guys are submissive males.

4) Do my looks matter?

Do your looks matter? Of course they do, but not nearly as much as you think and not nearly as much as anyone else thinks. Men fundamentally judge women by their looks: face, hair, eyes, breast, legs, body, etc. and, more than anything else, it is a woman's looks that turns men on (or turns men off). For a (heterosexual) man, a woman's looks are what initially "trances" him out, whereas women tend to be seduced more by words and actions - unless the man is some kind of male supermodel or superstar in which case women will trance out on him in the same way a man will trance out on any beautiful woman.
It is only natural that men think the same rules about looks apply to women as they do men. To a certain extent, yes. A woman, however, places much less importance to how a man looks compared to how he can make her feel. Looks might better help you get the "audition" but that's all. From that point on it still comes down to how you can make her feel. It's your ability to make women feel warm, happy, and magical deep down inside them that makes them actually want you, not how you look.

5) Nice guys vs jerks

The debate of "nice guys vs. jerks" has been raging for quite a long time. The nature of being a "nice guy", however, is commonly misunderstood. It is believed that being polite, considerate, friendly, tender, romantic, etc. is what being a "nice guy" is all about and thus those qualities should be avoided, as it is the "jerk", the rude, the inconsiderate, the impolite, the rough guy who always gets the girl while the "nice guy" is waiting outside in the pouring rain with flowers in his hand.
It doesn't mean that women prefer rude over polite, inconsiderate over considerate, etc. It all becomes clear when we look at a very important issue often overlooked when trying to define what makes the "jerks" beat the "nice guys" when it comes to getting the girls. It is sexuality - the "jerks" are not afraid to show that they are sexual beings, while the "nice guys" hide their sexuality as a part of their agenda of being friendly, polite, and courteous towards women.

6) It all comes down to satisfaction

"It doesn't matter HOW good she looks... she WANTS to climax and YOU can make it happen. You can make her cum anytime you want to and you know this. Let her know it too by the way you look at her... That is exactly what the 9-10's out there NEED. They get guys who come too soon, fawn over and smother her. Basically they (the 9-10s) don't get regularly or don't ever get what they REALLY NEED AND DESERVE. Granted it is a little harder work to overcome years of those women's' tiny and non-existent sexual satisfaction, but YOU are the MAN to deliver it."

7) Women want good sex and romance

Women don't want just sex - they want good sex and romance. Women's desires are much greater than most men realise. But, unlike men, who are mostly just after sex, women are looking for great sexual experiences. Women are very discriminating and choosy in picking sexual partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that sexually arouses them and/or promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed." Women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special. But women know that good sex is hard to find - once they have it, they will not let go easily:)
So make sure that when you do her, you do her right:)

8) Express or contain your sexual desires?

The whole point of seduction is to make the girl want you… really bad:) So the point of expressing or containing your own desires is moot. If you know how to make her want you, you might actually be more likely faced with the situation of trying to contain her sexual desires instead of yours:).
If however you are a clueless and horny, the following piece of advice is for you:

"Don't rush things sexually with single women. Appear as if you are still deciding whether or not you want to be involved. The first example: ending a date before she does, is a great way to accomplish this. Also, if the mood, the time, the place isn't right, or it feels the slightest bit awkward, don't try kissing her for the first time. If she's interested, the time and place will come. But, by pushing it, you risk blowing an important event, you risk coming off as being desperate for action and worst of all, you risk appearing inexperienced and inept. Don't be afraid to wait until the time is right."

9) Wanna play the dating game? Um… let's see…

Actually, dates should be an exclusive reward and privilege of those girls that you're already sleeping with. But if you still decide to take her on a date before that… don't make it a date, say that you'll just get together.

If you still insist on doing the classic date, here's a bit of advice:

"End the date before she does. You've gone to a movie and are now having a bite to eat at a restaurant. Instead of letting the date drag on to that awkward time when she finally says she has to go home, maintain control of the evening. While the conversation is still good, while the date is still going well, announce that it's getting late and it's time to go. Tell her that you enjoyed the evening [what a lie, your goal wasn't to stuff your stomach and see a movie, your goal was to tongue her down, make her horny like she'd never been and give her the orgasm of her life:)] and that you are looking forward to getting together again. This is going to surprise her, since every other guy thinks, that by some miracle, if he hangs on long enough that maybe he'll convince her to have sex with him [exactly, because "hanging on long enough" will accomplish nothing, but you should know better:)]. If a girl wants to have sex with you, she will let you know [and if you've done her right and can read her signs, then she has already given them to you:)]. So if you haven't gotten these vibes, end the date while it's still going well [but in fact if you haven't gotten those vibes in spite of all your advanced seduction attempts, you should have ejected her a long time ago:)]. You'll set yourself apart from the other guys she's used to. You demonstrate that you are not easy to get."

But honestly, avoid the whole dating thing. There are a zillion other ways to get to know to a girl than going on a "date". Do sports together, rent a movie (mmm:), have a cup of coffee, whatever, just avoid a "date". Get together - YES! Go on a date - NO!

10) The rules with your wingman

I tell all my wingmen up front that it's anything goes with the chicks. I am not going to try to take a chick that they are talking to, but if I am getting the vibe, I will give it ample time for my wing to reel her back in and get her. After that, it's full steam ahead! I will give him room because he's the one that found the chick, but if he can't attract her and he's tried his whole bit... step aside my man... it's my turn:) Same thing if I am called in as the wing. I will fulfil my duty as wing as it is explained to me, but if the situation goes dynamic and the wrong chick is into me, your clock is ticking down... get her back on course to you or she's mine.

That's right we are not easy! and that is why many of us are single but isn't it the most exiting thing possible to 'chase the bunny'? you only need to be man enough to catch and keep it!

If it's that hard, then I have no doubt, why almost all the girls in Poland are single :p

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